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Rem61
сообщение Nov 28 2007, 04:29 PM
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I believe, there will be no word about my personal life here, affecting anybody there;

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Любовь стала настолько общим местом – никто и не задумывается, о чем речь, «я люблю» мы скажем о чём угодно, но это даёт ПРАВА: ваш предмет – ваша собственность… и наоборот, ОБЯЗАННОСТИ – вы обязаны всем вашему предмету, раз то ли вы его любите, то ли он вас любит…

Ахинея – полная.

В этой связи я утверждаю: любви – нет!

– нет никакого ОБЩЕГО явления, одинаково переживаемого всеми! – у всех это – по-своему! – поэтому, назвать что-то любовью – это ваше абсолютно ЛИЧНОЕ, никому более не понятное и никого не касающееся; - с другой стороны, коль скоро это – ЧЬЁ-ТО ЛИЧНОЕ – невозможно его постичь и не надо пытаться!

Как иллюстрацию здесь можно привести попытку лезть с фонариком в потёмки чужой души – а не выйдет!

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Meanwhile I’d like to define some things here in order I could use them in my life, I could say it to my friends as abt smth I could see, and touch, and taste – not abt a work of imagination only;

I’d like to talk about – say it – attraction;

The world around shows – we, humans, are attracted by loads of things: by people of opposite gender, of the same gender, by delicacy, by comfort, by power, etc. It starts suddenly, on event, when we see / feel smbdy / smth and our internal world responds some special way – unexpected joy etc. & attraction;

Should we start yelling immediately: IT’S LOVE ! - I LOVE HER / HIM ! - I LOVE YOU ! - ?

probably - not;

wadayasay?

<to be continued>
 
 
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Rem61
сообщение Nov 29 2007, 10:39 AM
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To be attracted by somebody – it’s a miracle, it’s a piece of happiness in our life – jуst a gift smile.gif

Let’s enjoy it as much as possible – this feeling OF OURS; but – let’s won’t mark it with words-stamps immediately, let’s won’t hurry up…

Why I’m talking about attraction? – we’ve got used for ages to the status of the love feeling as the one between two genders – Romeo & Julia etc. But, look – Freddy Mercury, Elton John, Julio Iglesias, Boris Moiseev – these are the other names of world culture of today’s – they are known as having other idea in behavior – and the god bless them all, living & gone… Seems, we might even expect, these people might be more gentle in their relations than adoring westerns the world …

Let’s consider as worth respecting any attraction – the real a wealth of somebody’s…

The idea of mine here – how to go thru that for your goodness, for your happiness, developing it to the best - without breaking hearts?

In my humble opinion, any heart is much more precious a thing than any particular feeling of this heart, than any its attraction… any attraction is FOR your heart & never – to hurt it…

Any respond? smile.gif

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сообщение Dec 24 2007, 03:43 PM
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Цитата(Rem61 @ Nov 29 2007, 12:38 PM) *
To be attracted by somebody – it’s a miracle, it’s a piece of happiness in our life – jуst a gift smile.gif

Let’s enjoy it as much as possible – this feeling OF OURS; but – let’s won’t mark it with words-stamps immediately, let’s won’t hurry up…

The idea of mine here – how to go thru that for your goodness, for your happiness, developing it to the best - without breaking hearts?

In my humble opinion, any heart is much more precious a thing than any particular feeling of this heart, than any its attraction… any attraction is FOR your heart & never – to hurt it…

Any respond? smile.gif

<to be continued>


I should say your heart exists for this purpose - to feel love. And to give love. For as long as you are giving, you heart is protected. You won't suffer heartbreak. And love makes your heart stronger, imho. But again, it should be oriented towards giving. Otherwise, it is jуst like “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.”
smile.gif)
Maybe this passage about giving doesn't sound logical, for how can you tell who is it before you a princess or a swine ? The point is , even if it is swine, you will suffer a broken heart when you are expecting something in return for your pearls, and not getting it - then it feels like wasted investment, like a loss. So, idea is - treat it as a gift. Give it away freely, like flowers from the blossom of your heart - they are jуst there for giving !

Сообщение отредактировал TimurSulaimanov - Dec 24 2007, 03:47 PM
 

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