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[Rem61]

I believe, there will be no word about my personal life here, affecting anybody there;

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Любовь стала настолько общим местом – никто и не задумывается, о чем речь, «я люблю» мы скажем о чём угодно, но это даёт ПРАВА: ваш предмет – ваша собственность… и наоборот, ОБЯЗАННОСТИ – вы обязаны всем вашему предмету, раз то ли вы его любите, то ли он вас любит…

Ахинея – полная.

В этой связи я утверждаю: любви – нет!

– нет никакого ОБЩЕГО явления, одинаково переживаемого всеми! – у всех это – по-своему! – поэтому, назвать что-то любовью – это ваше абсолютно ЛИЧНОЕ, никому более не понятное и никого не касающееся; - с другой стороны, коль скоро это – ЧЬЁ-ТО ЛИЧНОЕ – невозможно его постичь и не надо пытаться!

Как иллюстрацию здесь можно привести попытку лезть с фонариком в потёмки чужой души – а не выйдет!

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Meanwhile I’d like to define some things here in order I could use them in my life, I could say it to my friends as abt smth I could see, and touch, and taste – not abt a work of imagination only;

I’d like to talk about – say it – attraction;

The world around shows – we, humans, are attracted by loads of things: by people of opposite gender, of the same gender, by delicacy, by comfort, by power, etc. It starts suddenly, on event, when we see / feel smbdy / smth and our internal world responds some special way – unexpected joy etc. & attraction;

Should we start yelling immediately: IT’S LOVE ! - I LOVE HER / HIM ! - I LOVE YOU ! - ?

probably - not;

wadayasay?

<to be continued>

[Гость_Serebrjany mir_*]

My dream woman: some girl between Yulia and Lena

Lena with Yulias character or Yulia with Lenas one...
I know its difficult to imagine something like that

My dream man? I dunno yet, if you find one tell me

[Rem61]

My dream woman: some girl between Yulia and Lena

Lena with Yulias character or Yulia with Lenas one...
I know its difficult to imagine something like that

My dream man? I dunno yet, if you find one tell me

Hi, ‘m glad you’ve come by )))

The topic’s ideas became by now like follow

- everybody talks love, everyone understands & feels it different way

so – yes, )) there is a common phenomenon of love – in everybody, but it understood & felt by each one different ways – the rare approximate coincidence is a biggest surprise in life ))

so on – if it had happened to you – to fell in this miracle – OK & very well – but never expect your counterpart feels the same – and he/she never thinks abt it the same way – never deceive yourself abt it

the pragmatic way here – to resist your love – to investigate it as is – to investigate yourself - to investigate your counterpart .. enjoy it .. it’s OK, it had happened to you, - but it’s never a promised happiness (like the idea of God is never the promised prosperity)

jуst & simply a science experiment of yours in such matter – with a negative outcome to be more safe for you )), than positive, MAYBE ))))))))))))))))))

rgds

Сообщение отредактировал Rem61 - Oct 7 2009, 10:59 AM