<no Man – No Problem> No Love – No Broken Hearts, Сердцам - не разбиваться: Любви – нет! Опции

[Rem61]

I believe, there will be no word about my personal life here, affecting anybody there;

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Любовь стала настолько общим местом – никто и не задумывается, о чем речь, «я люблю» мы скажем о чём угодно, но это даёт ПРАВА: ваш предмет – ваша собственность… и наоборот, ОБЯЗАННОСТИ – вы обязаны всем вашему предмету, раз то ли вы его любите, то ли он вас любит…

Ахинея – полная.

В этой связи я утверждаю: любви – нет!

– нет никакого ОБЩЕГО явления, одинаково переживаемого всеми! – у всех это – по-своему! – поэтому, назвать что-то любовью – это ваше абсолютно ЛИЧНОЕ, никому более не понятное и никого не касающееся; - с другой стороны, коль скоро это – ЧЬЁ-ТО ЛИЧНОЕ – невозможно его постичь и не надо пытаться!

Как иллюстрацию здесь можно привести попытку лезть с фонариком в потёмки чужой души – а не выйдет!

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Meanwhile I’d like to define some things here in order I could use them in my life, I could say it to my friends as abt smth I could see, and touch, and taste – not abt a work of imagination only;

I’d like to talk about – say it – attraction;

The world around shows – we, humans, are attracted by loads of things: by people of opposite gender, of the same gender, by delicacy, by comfort, by power, etc. It starts suddenly, on event, when we see / feel smbdy / smth and our internal world responds some special way – unexpected joy etc. & attraction;

Should we start yelling immediately: IT’S LOVE ! - I LOVE HER / HIM ! - I LOVE YOU ! - ?

probably - not;

wadayasay?

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[Rem61]

To be attracted by somebody – it’s a miracle, it’s a piece of happiness in our life – jуst a gift

Let’s enjoy it as much as possible – this feeling OF OURS; but – let’s won’t mark it with words-stamps immediately, let’s won’t hurry up…

Why I’m talking about attraction? – we’ve got used for ages to the status of the love feeling as the one between two genders – Romeo & Julia etc. But, look – Freddy Mercury, Elton John, Julio Iglesias, Boris Moiseev – these are the other names of world culture of today’s – they are known as having other idea in behavior – and the god bless them all, living & gone… Seems, we might even expect, these people might be more gentle in their relations than adoring westerns the world …

Let’s consider as worth respecting any attraction – the real a wealth of somebody’s…

The idea of mine here – how to go thru that for your goodness, for your happiness, developing it to the best - without breaking hearts?

In my humble opinion, any heart is much more precious a thing than any particular feeling of this heart, than any its attraction… any attraction is FOR your heart & never – to hurt it…

Any respond?

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